New second beginning
Peace be upon you everyone, My name is Barb.
I am a woman first, a wife second, and a mother last. That’s how I was born, and the actual order of how things happened. That is why I identify myself as such.
I am a teacher by day (or at least I think I have since COVID-19 happened) and a bookworm by night, I love diving into new adventures and stories through novels.
Ever since I had my boy Innocense, I became devoted to him completely. for one because I struggled with infertility, and second, because I struggled with mental health because of several miscarriages.
Why I Started New Second Beginning
Recently I have been struggling with myself and my career. Since I wasn’t making any money I felt empty inside as if I was doing nothing of importance in this world. Like I didn’t matter.
Apart from being a wife and a mother which I love, a person needs to be content with himself to be able to do all the other things, and I was not.
I decided that I had to find something that would help me get out of this rut. So Google and YouTube became my best friends for months until I found it.
My Goals for New Second Beginning
I want to help people especially women who are going through or went through the same things I went through and still haven’t recovered, whether it’s infertility, depression, self-discovery, or self-improvement. All I want to do is add some value to this world and then maybe, just maybe I can feel satisfied and that I have a purpose in life.
what I want to write about in New Second Beginning
Being a confident, independent woman:
Everything on how to develop yourself as a person and be confident and satisfied about who you are.
Having a healthy relationship
My husband Ben and I went through a lot in our relationship to reach the level we are at today. I am not saying we have the perfect relationship but we do still work on it to this day. We’ve been together for 7 years.
He is one of the reasons I had to do something for myself, financially more than anything else. He once told me: ” Even though we are married, each person needs to have his own identity to be independent both mentally and financially. If we can be happy and content with ourselves, we can bring happiness and security to our partners. For example: If my birthday came, would you rather ask me for money to get me a present or would you rather buy it yourself with your own money??! exactly.” PS: He loves giving examples when making a point hihi.
Being a competent mother:
- Talking about the struggle of infertility.
- The pain of miscarriage, both physical and mental.
- The blessing of having a child and how to raise him the right way.
Finally, I want to become more secure and independent in my life. And help other people reach the place they want to be in the future.
I would love to hear about your struggles and how you got through them. Together we can help each other grow stronger and wiser. You can always leave a comment or subscribe to my email list. You can also be a guest poster if you want to share your journey and help others.
